We can not also head into a hospital and request a glove.
“… in the event that you require a glove, they (nurses) are likely to ask you to answer if you’re `a home-based care worker, exactly what are you going do along with it’? In the event that you inform them regarding the intimate orientation, particularly in hospitals, it creates it a little more difficult. ” Alletta, 35yrs old, Durban
The 2 individuals above relate to the ways that responses from some wellness providers could make individuals feel exposed and on occasion even `deviant’. Such behaviours or attitudes can drive lesbians away and hinder usage of services, hence placing women at further danger.
In general many health care professionals had been regarded as extremely supportive with regards to look after individuals coping with HIV. This excluded dealing with an individual’s intimate orientation and history that is sexual. Conversations about individual history that is sexual restricted to gay and lesbian organisations where many individuals gotten information, care and help. During these areas, participants may also easily speak about their intimate behavior and identity that is sexual. Outside such organisations, participants were 
uncomfortable to reveal their intimate orientation as a result of anxiety about prejudice and stigma:
“I haven’t mentioned that (i am a lesbian) due to the stigma connected with disclosing your sex. A few of the (HIV) organisations i will be a part of for instance — is really a Christian organisation. Dealing with my sex for them could be so very hard. ” Tambu, 40 yrs old, Zimbabwe
Participants’ incapacity to communicate about their sex (due to concern about stigma and prejudice) also hindered their use of safer intercourse information and means that are protective. More